The Long Goodbye It is very hard to lose a brother, and over the three weeks since he died, memories of events and gatherings shared over the decades have flooded in. Thank you Roger for all you have shared with us as a family and added to our lives, on both sides of the Atlantic. After a meaningful life, over too soon, you will be remembered by so many with affection and missed so much.. Much love as always Kathy and Toivo.xxxx